When your planning to get married you should make sure this is the right choice for you and your potential spouse. Never jump into a marriage just because your insecure and are worried about losing someone. Never get married because your worried about being alone either. Some good marriage advice I would recommend is to live together for several years before committing to such an important step. If you can live together for several years you will at least see how you get along. You don’t really know anyone until you live with them. Don’t make the mistake of marrying someone before living with them!