Taking responsibility is very important for building up the relationship. No matter the problems you’ve had in your relationship, never blame your partner for your actions like being in an emotional affairs. Admit what you’ve done and give your partner a heartfelt apology.
Tell them how much they mean to you and how you regret putting your relationship in jeopardy. Giving your spouse space is also very important. Remember that you’ve known for a long time that you are carrying on the affair, so give your partner the space he needs to process the information. Let her be angry with you and answer any questions she has about your affair.
