If you have been thinking, “I wish I knew how to get my ex back,” you are not the only person to think along these lines. If you have been desperately pleading for your ex to come back, making late phone calls sobbing into the receiver or anything else of the sort, stop right there. That is no way to get your ex back. You need to stop begging and pleading and stop crying. Give wounds time to heal. Then pick a time and place you can meet and hash things over. Perhaps you will work it out, perhaps you won’t. Regardless, you know you gave it a good chance if you go into it clear headed and open-minded.